At different stages of our lives we gravitate towards different mentors to carry us through that pertinent stage of our life’s journey, by Vejay Reddy
By Vejay Reddy: Take small increments of responsibility. Always be hungry to grow! Be comfortable with being uncomfortable, which in turn will allow you to aspire and dream big and experience exponential growth.
We are a Vessel to Reach out and inspire the next generation
To to be a disruptor in your family lineage, making a generational difference, by Vejay Reddy
Underpinned by our past paradigms, dogmatic learnings, traditional indoctrinations, and our inner belief systems, each individual’s experiences are different since we journey life through our own set of ‘adapted and altered’ lenses. We interpret life differently based on our frame of reference. Our intergenerational thread carries both the strength of intergenerational resilience and the weight of intergenerational trauma. But with your needle - being your silver bullet - you choose the thread that shapes your story. It’s like having a cup half empty of half full, its how you want to Picasso your life. by Vejay Reddy
Cementing a selfcoaching discipline as part of your mental mindset at early stages in your life is imperative in building and forging a positive trajectory for your life goals you set going forward. By Vejay Reddy
Human Behavior 101: We choose to say and do, What we want... When we want… How we want…To suite the current and potential situation. We selectively manipulate the situation to suite ourselves and align it to our belief in order to reinforce and support our thinking. This allows complacency. The false narrative that 'we are right'! A sort of 'self-proclaimed positive reinforcement'. By Vejay Reddy
one individual's mistakes empowers others for growth, development and discovery
By Vejay Reddy: Fixating ourselves to reach our goals is a practice that needs to get institutionalised within us overtime, since we still have to navigate through the various intentional or unintentional variables we created that derail us which is underpinned and skewed by our frame of reference.
Coaching is to help facilitate your journey from where you are to where you want to be!
You have to undergo self-assessment, and only then do you have the self-awareness to achieve self-improvement.
By Vejay Reddy: We need to focus on one’s own inner-landscape so that we can create a canvas for our lives and our family sustenance to create a masterful outer-landscape.
By Vejay Reddy: it is the will and determination to be a provider and succeed no matter the adversity you face, that defines a positive disruptor
By Vejay Reddy: Focus on your Chapter 1! Be mindful, Individuals that had leverage from generational and family lineage influences and benefited from 'unintentional' coaching, allowed them to claim they are "Street Smart." In reality, their family influences, conversations around the dinner table, schooling, and vectored extracurricular activities have moulded them into "Street Smart" individuals. This here alone I describe is their 'Cheat Sheet' which affords them a quick-pass, bypassing the 'old system' of Hard Knocks Learnings!
You must be deliberate, intentional and unapologetic about applying the lessons and teachings you learn about Life to YOUR Life. By Vejay Reddy
As I reflect, I realise that the gravel roads I once traversed were gradually paved with determination and cemented by life’s lessons that ultimately crystallised into meaningful, tangible goals By Vejay Reddy
I personally opted to go against the threads sewn by my intergenerational trauma and focus my energies on my intergenerational resilience. This resilience overtime moulded my values, principles, character, and spiritual alignment. By Vejay Reddy
Intergenerational thread is made up of intergenerational resilience and intergenerational trauma. Taking the needle, which is your metaphoric silver bullet, what thread do you want to use to clothe your person. It’s like having a cup half empty of half full, its how you want to Picasso your life. By Vejay Reddy
The one mistake that we all face is that we are waiting for a ‘thank you’ and a Noddy badge. Why should we wait for this? We must focus on ourselves first in order to deliver on the inner goals that we set for ourselves. When we have a fighting spirit, a tenacity to achieve something, we must indoctrinate our beliefs that no one, not anyone, should come in the way of our goals. Dream big, select the goals wisely, and achieve it – one step at a time. By Vejay Reddy
